Sunday, October 28, 2012

Discovering Nature

"Discovering Nature" by Sharon Dequer


Near a tangled city suburb, a young mother raced madly down a warm spring hillside, trying to catch a snake. Racing madly down the hill trying to keep up with her mother, a young girl captured forever a moment of beauty and adventure—and much more.
I was the child chasing my mother down that green hillside. The lingeringfeel of that and other, now-forgotten experiences with her has truly shaped my life and values as an adult. Countless magic moments have spanned the years, filled with ever-new discoveries as tiny as a sparkling, dew-tipped blade of grass and as vast as a clear, moonless, midnight sky.
In her book, The Sense of Wonder, Rachel Carson describes waking her twenty-month-old nephew in the night and carrying him out to experience the majesty of a raging thunderstorm. When was the last time you took your family walking in the rain, wading in the stream-like gutters? When wind whips through the night or when fog lies so thick and low that streetlights become pale glowing orbs, do you venture out, all of you holding hands, without a flashlight? Have you simply slept under the stars in your own backyard?
Think of the attitudes parents convey to children in such experiences, not necessarily attitudes about thunderstorms or snakes, but about life and the joy of living! Spiritual experiences can’t be staged, but one fruitful avenue that involves our children and ourselves in inspiring experiences is to explore—fully and enthusiastically—God’s creations. In the course of growing up we tend to acquire a worldly sophistication that dampens this enthusiastic sense of wonder about nearly everything. Cultivating wonder about nature heightens our appreciation of all creation and begins to break down our artificial distinction between things temporal and spiritual. (See D&C 29:34–35.)
In our increasingly urban world, we often think only of national parks and other distant vacation spots as being “nature.” But actually nature is all around us. It is in our city parks and vacant lots, our gardens and our streets. Even the most crowded city has sunlight and wind and dandelions growing in the cracks.
“Well, then,” the parent asks, “how do I teach my children about nature?” I’m an interpretive naturalist; “teaching” is my job. So I speak from experience when I say, “You can’t, yet. Not until you know that nature really can’t be taught; it can only be discovered. And we adults cannot share in discovery until we reawaken our own ability to see the world through childlike eyes.”
“Discovering nature” makes the common uncommon. But “doing nature” makes the uncommon common by dully labeling countless plants and animals and reciting collections of detailed bits of lore. “Discovering nature” has a lot to do directly with fun and something to do indirectly with facts. I never overtly “taught” my toddlers anything about flowers, but when they were eighteen months old they began gently cradling blossoms in their hands, stroking the petals, sniffing and searching the centers for tiny “inseks,” and comparing buds with seed-heads. Gentleness they may have learned by example, but the rest is surely innate in the human child, curious to comprehend his world. Appreciation must surely begin with awareness; and awareness involves all one’s self.
A good way to begin discovering nature is by becoming more “sense-able.”
Teach your eyes, for example, to see, not just to look. Become alert for movement, large and small, in the grass, in the sky, at the borders of your vision. Look for colors that differ from their surroundings and for subtle changes and mixtures of hue. (There must be a hundred shades of green or brown in any summery scene). Look for shapes that seemingly don’t belong—a bird-shape or pine cone amid the fine branchlets of a tree.
Carry a small mirror with a hole at one edge on your adventure walks. Use it to get a worm’s eye view of the underside of a mushroom or the inside of a hollow tree. Put a long stick into the mirror hole and reach up for a bird’s eye view of a nest and its contents.
At night, hold a flashlight in front of your nose and scan with the beam; you’ll catch the gleam of reflected eyeshine in grass, bushes, gravel—anywhere. Possibly hundreds of creatures are looking at you: moths, beetles, spiders, frogs, mice, cats, raccoons—each with its own sparkly or glowing eyeshine color, like jewels in the night.
Then turn out the light. Although in that narrow beam you can see clearly, without it your eyes will quickly become dark-adapted, and you will see vastly more.
Concentrate on smells. Sample the breeze. Then take your nose up close and sniff the bark of trees. Different species often have characteristic odors (vanilla, cinnamon, or just pungent, sweet, indescribable). Unlock the distinctive qualities of leaves by crushing one, or (better for the plant) by rubbing it firmly between your fingers.
Experiment with taste and touch. Close your eyes and let someone put an object in your hands. What shape is it? What size and texture? Is it wet, dry, smooth, sticky, rough, furry, brittle, flexible, heavy, light? Smell it; brush it against your cheek. You might not know what it is, but could you find it again amid a number of other, possibly similar objects? Making a more complex game of it, could someone else identify your object from just your description?
Feeling the shapes of plant stems may bring you some surprises. Although most are round, some are square (the mints), and others, found in damp places, are triangular (sedges have edges).
Once, after a family-oriented discovery walk I conducted, a woman confided that she’d never seen her children so vitally involved and active. “I’ve always told them ‘Don’t touch!’ about everything,” she said, “and now I see what a mistake that has been.”
Exercising your sense of taste in the outdoors requires more caution, of course. There are many interesting books on the identification and use of edible wild plants, although they may not be applicable to your area. Further, many plants that are edible in one portion or growth stage may be poisonous in another, or require special treatment to become edible. Acorns are a good example. Although nutritious and tasty when properly prepared, the bitter tannic acid they contain must be leached out first. But at the very least you can nibble on lichens, those crusty little plants that coat rocks, fence posts, and tree trunks. You will find their flavors as varied as their colors and growth-forms—perhaps they will taste nutty, bitter, or bland, but all will be rather like cardboard!
Teach your ears to really hear, too. Be silent yourself sometimes. Consciously sort out the many sounds around you. Do they tell you anything new? After days of noting the train sounds from the not-too-distant tracks, my daughters and I planned a train-watching excursion that proved quite grand. Cup your hands behind your ears to help you focus on elusive sounds. (And marvel at the ear structure of a cat, or of a fox, who can hear a handclap a mile away!) Put your ear to the ground like a movieland Indian; you actually will hear something exciting, if there is movement nearby, either above or below the surface.
Your ears can aid you in having fun at night with the help of a cheerful cricket. As a cold-blooded creature, his body temperature, and hence, his activity, vary according to the temperature of his surroundings. Count the number of chirps he makes in fifteen seconds, then add forty and you will know the temperature of the night. Check his accuracy with a thermometer; remember to hold it at cricket level, deep in the grass or near a stone, where the temperature might be different from that at your level.
Trying to locate your little insect can be quite a challenge too. Spread out and have each member of the family shine his flashlight at the spot where he thinks the little ventriloquist is hiding. Shift positions until all agree. Then search carefully. If you have been quiet enough, you may be rewarded with watching him make his cheery chirping.
Learn to be very still while using your exploratory tools. If you can tolerate the consequences to your lawn, why not stake out the next small gopher mound that begins to form in your yard till you see the furry creature himself working like a nearsighted little bulldozer?
And always ask questions—especially how and why. See if you can tickle a spider web with a piece of grass so that the spider mistakes the vibrations for those of an entrapped meal, thus revealing himself. How? Overturn stones and boards to find life forms that hide from the light. Why? (Then remember to replace their roof!) Pour water on a moss- or lichen-covered surface and watch the changes. “How come?”
Your ability to reason far exceeds your sensory sophistication. Your exploratory efforts may easily supply all the data you need to reason out the answers. If not, “I don’t know” is the beginning of the next step. Once your sense of wonder is aroused, remember that books and local experts can help.
A question as important as “How does it work?” is “How does it fit in?” Here’s where events and relationships, both large and small, enlarge your understanding as you look for similarity and variety, adaptation and development, interaction and interdependence, change and continuity. Each discovery is a fascinating glimpse into the intricate relationships of creation, which relationships are the true substance of ecology.
Thus, an old dead log becomes the center of the universe for the creatures who live there and a muddy streambank becomes an animal newspaper filled with footprint stories for the alert and curious eye to read.
What are the results of this sensitization? Family outings and vacations become more meaningful; but also the neighborhood park, the walk to the market, the backyard play area, and ultimately all of life takes on new dimensions. You may qualify for a merit badge or a college degree along the way, but that’s not the point. Something wonder-filled is undoubtedly happening this very moment on your own doorstep!
By this time, if you do care to tag names onto your animal, vegetable, or mineral discoveries, the names will have meaning; the concepts will have substance. You (and your family) will be involved in nature. You also will have become more deeply involved with each other, of course, for exploring together entails developing (and possibly changing) attitudes and values. The first attitude that may be troublesome is fear.
Really, what’s so fearsome about a beetle or a snake, especially when reason tells you it is harmless? Remember that just as enthusiasm is contagious, so also is fear. Instead of simply fearing, consider ways to become happily acquainted with a potentially dangerous creature, such as a bee, without harming either you or the bee. A mother on a nature walk was worried that her children might encounter snakes, including poisonous varieties, in her area. I suggested that when her children were familiar with the appearance and habits of many different kinds of snakes they would be better able to avoid dangerous ones. Our own small daughters are fascinated with spider webs; and they have learned how to tell if a black widow (we have a lot) is occupying a web. At the age of two our girls knew that all spiders were for watching, but not for playing with. I do not now worry for their safety; we have taught them correct principles.
There’s a special dimension in discovering nature for Latter-day Saints. We know that “all things” were “created … spiritually, before they were naturally upon the face of the earth.” (Moses 3:5.) That element of eternity means that we can never be calloused or careless about any element of our mortal experience. Our attitude toward nature, I’m convinced, is vitally connected with our attitudes toward ourselves. One discouraging example I witnessed a couple of years ago was when a ranger asked a group of young visitors, “What is the environment?” He expected someone to say that it is everything around us. Instead, their answer was: “It’s pollution.”
“Can we do anything to improve the environment?” the ranger countered. Distressingly, their reply was “No,” and this incident is part of a larger, darker pessimism.
Every year, my husband assigns his junior high school social science students to write an essay entitled “What Is Man?” Their responses are dismal. They paint man as a terrible monster who has no place in nature and no capacity except to destroy. As a child matures with such negative values and attitudes, how does he feel about himself? About his family and society? About man’s ability to solve ecological, social, and political problems? Indeed, what would motivate him even to try? How receptive is he to the gospel of repentance and eternal progression?
We know that each of us is a child of God, that the earth is our stewardship as well as proving ground. Yet our children are being exposed to views of man as a beast, of pollution as inevitable and irreversible, of cooperation as futile. Will they be prepared to refute those influences, not necessarily with the knowledge of a scientist, but with the testimony of the Spirit, acquired through personal, significant involvement with the Lord and his creations?
When such questions trouble us as parents, the gospel gives us perspective. We know that committed Christians are neither cynical nor slothful; and as we, with our children, develop an appreciation for our Father’s creations, we also develop those other elements of faith—a sense of wonder and a sense of truth. Together we are discovering nature—including human nature and the divine nature as well.

Friday, October 26, 2012

My Favorite Day.

“What day is it?"
"It's today," squeaked Piglet.
"My favorite day," said Pooh.

The Ghost and Mr. Chicken and Such

Tonight Callie, Laura, Brianna, and I watched "The Ghost and Mr. Chicken." This is perhaps my favorite Halloween movie and one of my favorites with Don Knotts in it. Here's a sample of the haunted organ music :) My thoughts for the night are below.


It must be cold when everything is covered with frost, including leaves.
The best place to study and stay warm is the library.
Time spent with family and friends is time well spent.
Always expect treats from your mom hidden in packages sent to you.
Disappointments come in pairs. You never just experience one.
I love the music from Narnia. I could listen to it all day.
Live music tops recorded music by a mile.
When math class is cancelled, you know it's going to be a good day.
Sometimes I would kill to be normal.
I am forever grateful to those who are there when I just need to talk.
Homemade hot apple cider melts even the coldest of hearts.
Making a quote wall is perhaps the best idea my apartment has ever had.
Our apartment now has it's own theme song.
Always be there for friends. Never leave them stranded or alone.
I love emails from family.
Never, ever, EVER give up. Sometimes it seems impossible, but you can do it.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Thoughts on a Rainy Day

Sometimes we eat because we're hungry.
Elmer's Glue isn't nearly as strong as I thought it was in elementary school.
My head hurts. Maybe it's because I think too much.
My roommate is snoring.
I should work out in the morning.
People should text back. Even if it's one word it's common courtesy.
My heater kicked on. Thank goodness for my heater.
I'm going to start meditating. I think this will help my head.
Sometimes the life of a hermit doesn't seem too bad.
My mission papers are started. I'm so excited!
There's a jar of candy corn on my dresser. It makes my room look festive.
I love my grandparents beyond belief. They make me smile.
I'm determined to buy my grandparents' house when they sell it. I love their trees.
My Halloween decorations keep falling down.
The Internet is horrible. People waste too much of their lives on it.
I love rain storms in October. We even got some snow.
I'm slightly OCD. Things have to be in order or I freak.
I can't wait to own my own house.
I wouldn't mind living by myself for a very long time.
Books are an escape from everyday life.
Halloween is next week! Yes!
This blog is awesome. Keep reading. :)

Monday, October 15, 2012

Lessons Learned on Yet Another Busy Day

When you plan to wake up at 6:00, really plan on waking up at 6:30 or later.
Halloween decorations rock, especially mine.
Never gossip. It's not worth the hurt.
A clean apartment is a happy apartment.
Do not leave your clarinet in the car overnight unless you like heart attacks.
Never slide your hand down the spine of a music book. You may slice your finger.
Sometimes leftovers taste better than when they were fresh.
Sight-singing is hard, especially singing in "Do, Re, Mi" form.
Always keep a positive attitude in spite of bad experiences.
If a friend needs your help, help them. It could make the biggest difference.
There's nothing worse than seeing that special someone with someone else.
Stars look cooler in small towns.
Even when you can't seem to do something, try your absolute hardest.
When your roommates don't like decorations, put more up.
There's nothing like an autumn breeze to chill you to the bones.
Do not be someone else's mother. Ever.
Sometimes talking to your professor is the best cure for anxiety.
Never stop smiling. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Every day brings new lessons learned.
And there's more...

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Lesson Learned

Beds are comfy. Doing homework on them can be quite nice.
When there are many people in your apartment, it gets quite warm quite fast.
Never get six hours of sleep Saturday night. You will not make it through church on Sunday.
If you want something done, do it yourself.
Girls can take even the slightest act of kindness as a misinterpretation of flirtatious behavior.
Singing the hymns in church isn't the same without an organ.
Nothing cures a headache like a relaxing walk on a cool Autumn night.
Leaves are crunchy only after a sunny day, not after a rain storm.
Math makes no sense sometimes. Just put it down and finish it in the morning.
I'm going to be up late tomorrow night.
Facebook kills time. Time lost is like preparation that is never done.
I'm always hungry. Nothing satisfies my endless pit for long.
I can't understand a bit of Japanese.
If you don't want to fall in love with someone, don't spend any time with them.
I will fall asleep in any movie you make me watch. That comes backed with a 90% guarantee.
I'm not obsessed with Super Heroes. I never was and I never will be. Sorry Avengers.
There is not enough time in my life that I can use to be outdoors. Curse homework.
Music is my safety. I can always count on it to lift me up.
Flies drive the bejeebies out of me. Why must they buzz so loud?
I need my own house. Badly.
Worldly possessions mean nothing when put in contrast with friends.
I need a therapist.
Never pass a slow car when the oncoming car is only a few hundred feet away.
There's nothing like when that special someone texts you back.
You don't realize how much someone has done for you until you are away from them.
It's way too easy to be jealous of others' lives.
Whoever invented the Snooze button was a nincompoop.
People are so kind that words cannot describe my love for them.
Don't forget to take out your roommates hidden Powerade out of the oven before heating it up.
Video games and YouTube stink. I never spend my time on such frivolous activities.
No matter what you've done, the Spirit can shine through you.
Sometimes making a list of lessons learned makes you realize all the lessons you've learned.
And these aren't even all...